Sex Toys

A Christian sex toy can actually be allowable within a Christian relationship, if it abides by the following guidelines. Being that a Christian sex toy can be broad and fit many definitions, it is ultimately the couples decision whether to include a particular Christian sex toy into a relationship. But there are very important guidelines Christian couples should follow:

1. Safety. Christian couples should place safety into high regard when choosing to bring in a Christian sex toy. If it poses obvious harm to either individual, then it should not be used, and really should not be considered a Christian sex toy.

2. Must be a generic item. In other words there are some sex toys out there designed to look like another individual, or in some way are attached to another individuals identity, usually someone of fame or celebrity. Obviously this shouldn't be brought into a Christian couples sex practice as it mimicks the action of bringing a third party into the intimate practice of Christian sex, which should be a celebration between two people.

3. Must be an enhancer, not a worshiper. This refers to a Christian sex toy acting as an aid or enhancer in Christian sex, rather than serving as the centerpiece. A Christian couple shouldn't have to rely on an item to practice Christian sex. Rather they should only employ a Christian sex toy to enhance the practice of Christian sex. Worshiping an item and making it the center piece of intimacy should not be practiced.

A Christian sex toy can take many forms and has much variety. Researching the best Christian sex toy can be both fun and exciting, and a couple need only follow the simple guidelines above to ensure their Christian sex toy practice is sound.

By: Chess McDoogle

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Silas

One surefire way to bring a surprising charge into a Christian marriage is with a Christian Sex Toy. There are many healthy, religiously safe ways to bring in sexy, fun, exciting and erotic tools to the table when it comes to sex within a Christian relationship. Lotions, spicy foods, and a christian sex toy can make one unforgettably fun and sensual Christian experience.

First, the no-no's. I am aware that there are some manufacturers out there who have been marketing a specific brand of Christian intimacy toy which emulates that of the cross. In some instances it is a cross which hs Jesus on it. Don't be fooled by this marketing ploy which describes this object as a Christian sex toy. Despite the construct, design, and lubricating ability, this is not, I repeat NOT, a sanctioned Christian intimacy aid in which married couples should possess let alone use.

Now, the goods! Well what kind of toy could i possibly have and use that both reflects my spiritual nature yet celebrates my love making within a strong Christian relationship? A challenging questioning right? Well I introduce the Christian tickler pleasure pillow. It is essentially a small satin pillow with feathers all around that can fit in the palm of your hand. The inside is stuffed with a very lightweight soft cotton. There may be variations of these available somewhere in stores, but I have found making these with your wife can be a fun, exciting and pleasurable experience. (She does most of the sewing and knows just how to get the feathers to stay!)

After our small tickler pillow is constructed we then bless the satin sheet which covers it, say a small prayer on how this object which we both created from our love, will serve as a symbol of for that love and our devotion to one another and celebration of one another through the Christian religion. What we have created essentially is really the ideal intimate toy because we have given it so much meaning, love, and celebratory Christian flavor that it can now serve as a tool to greatly enhance our sex lives.

Our intimacy aid is only one example and though we find it the easiest, funnest, and most pleasurable to use, other Christian couples may have preference for a intimacy aid of their own making. The key is to add blessing and prayer to whatever pleasuring toy you do come up with. But do feel free to construct a Christian tickler pleasure pillow of your own, adding of course your own prayer and celebratory Christian love!

By: Chess McDoogle

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Darius

Spicing up Christian sex should be a goal every Christian couple has for their relationship.

Sometimes we can forget how important intimacy really is, and neglect our needs for having a pleasurable and exciting sex life. So, let's find out how we can spice up Christian sex:

1. Sex toys.

Now sex toys do not have to be anything elaborate, nor do they have to go against the guidelines of Christian intimacy. Erotic lubrication is, for example, an easy and effective sex toy to use to spice things up. There are many other safe options to consider as well. Obviously you want to stay away from things which are harmful or unsafe.

2. Try new positions.

Way too often we get in a certain groove and perform intimacy the same way over and over and over. Switch things up! Try new positions. This can be incredibly erotic and pleasing to both you and your partner. Many Christians are hesitant to experiment with a new position, in fear that it may not be in sync with Christian intimacy belief. But, surprisingly most positions are allowable, and if you have any doubt you can consult an intimacy manual which will outline what is allowed and what is not, within Christianity.

3. Sex Techniques.

There are many Christian sex techniques beyond different positions. You can learn ways to improve foreplay and increase pleasure greatly simply by learning a few new sex techniques. There are erotic zones for touching that work excellent, oral techniques that will drive your lover wild, and many more pleasurable tips that will make the difference between mediocre sex and outstanding sex. An intimacy guide which focuses on techniques for Christians can be a great resource on how to learn all the tips and techniques you'll need for great sex.

By: Chess McDoogle

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Jalen

Sex toys are not invented for nothing. Till these days, there are still couple rejecting the idea of using sex toys when they are making love. Sex toys are actually a very useful tool to help spice up the sex life between you and your partner.

By using sex toys when you are making love with your partner, you can help create that extra sparks and fun in it. So what are some sex toys that you can consider introducing into your sex life?

1. Whip and handcuffs. These toys are great when both of you want to enjoy some play acting and erotic sexual experiences. One activity that you can do with these toys is to tie your partner onto the bed post with your handcuffs, and then using the whip on your partner.

2. Poker cards and board games. There are a lot of erotic board games and strip pokers out there. By playing some board games or poker before both of you get into the real action; it can help create anticipation between both of you. Therefore while both of you are playing the games, your minds will be thinking about sex, which will definitely leads to a passionate sex later on.

3. A vibrator. This is the most common sex toy in the market. The man can use the vibrator on the woman to locate her G-Spot. If you are adventurous enough, you can film your woman, while she is masturbating with the vibrator.

Sex toys are being categorized between Beginner and Advanced. The sex toys listed above are considered beginner toys. Try exploring them. Once your partner and you feel that both of you have passed the Beginner stage, move on and explore those advanced toys on the market.

By: Crid Lee

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Leon

A very common question in regards to Christian sex advice, is: what is allowable? Are only certain positions allowable? Are sex toys allowable? Are only certain techniques allowable? Here is some very important Christian sex advice which will tell you exactly what is allowable and what is not!

First of all, what is allowable is essentially most anything that a Christian couple mutually agrees upon. That is really the key. There must be mutual agreement, and a sex technique or method cannot be forced or coerced onto another who is in disagreement with that particular form of intimacy.

What about sex toys?

This again generally falls under the above guidelines that if both individuals agree upon a certain sex toy, then they should allow it without fear of sin. There are some exceptions as described below.

So what is not allowable in sex?

What is not allowable within sex is bringing a third party into intimacy. Sex should be between the Christian couple only. Threesomes, foursomes or more, are not at all allowed. Now, in regards to a sex toy, the toy should not resemble or mimic that of a third party either.

Is there any other Christian sex advice we should know in regards to what is allowable and what is not?

There is the issue of pornography. This should also not be allowed within intimacy, especially as something used during or before sex. Pornography touches on issues of lust, and should not be included within Christian sex practice.

Other than that, Christian couples are free to explore and enjoy sexual intimacy to the fullest. You can greatly improve your sex life by reading a sex manual which specifically focuses on Christian intimacy. It will provide guidelines to follow, as well as unique, exciting, enjoyable, and erotic ways for you to become intimate with one another.

By: Chess McDoogle

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Mathew