Sex Toys

A Christian sex toy can actually be allowable within a Christian relationship, if it abides by the following guidelines. Being that a Christian sex toy can be broad and fit many definitions, it is ultimately the couples decision whether to include a particular Christian sex toy into a relationship. But there are very important guidelines Christian couples should follow:

1. Safety. Christian couples should place safety into high regard when choosing to bring in a Christian sex toy. If it poses obvious harm to either individual, then it should not be used, and really should not be considered a Christian sex toy.

2. Must be a generic item. In other words there are some sex toys out there designed to look like another individual, or in some way are attached to another individuals identity, usually someone of fame or celebrity. Obviously this shouldn't be brought into a Christian couples sex practice as it mimicks the action of bringing a third party into the intimate practice of Christian sex, which should be a celebration between two people.

3. Must be an enhancer, not a worshiper. This refers to a Christian sex toy acting as an aid or enhancer in Christian sex, rather than serving as the centerpiece. A Christian couple shouldn't have to rely on an item to practice Christian sex. Rather they should only employ a Christian sex toy to enhance the practice of Christian sex. Worshiping an item and making it the center piece of intimacy should not be practiced.

A Christian sex toy can take many forms and has much variety. Researching the best Christian sex toy can be both fun and exciting, and a couple need only follow the simple guidelines above to ensure their Christian sex toy practice is sound.

By: Chess McDoogle

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Silas

One surefire way to bring a surprising charge into a Christian marriage is with a Christian Sex Toy. There are many healthy, religiously safe ways to bring in sexy, fun, exciting and erotic tools to the table when it comes to sex within a Christian relationship. Lotions, spicy foods, and a christian sex toy can make one unforgettably fun and sensual Christian experience.

First, the no-no's. I am aware that there are some manufacturers out there who have been marketing a specific brand of Christian intimacy toy which emulates that of the cross. In some instances it is a cross which hs Jesus on it. Don't be fooled by this marketing ploy which describes this object as a Christian sex toy. Despite the construct, design, and lubricating ability, this is not, I repeat NOT, a sanctioned Christian intimacy aid in which married couples should possess let alone use.

Now, the goods! Well what kind of toy could i possibly have and use that both reflects my spiritual nature yet celebrates my love making within a strong Christian relationship? A challenging questioning right? Well I introduce the Christian tickler pleasure pillow. It is essentially a small satin pillow with feathers all around that can fit in the palm of your hand. The inside is stuffed with a very lightweight soft cotton. There may be variations of these available somewhere in stores, but I have found making these with your wife can be a fun, exciting and pleasurable experience. (She does most of the sewing and knows just how to get the feathers to stay!)

After our small tickler pillow is constructed we then bless the satin sheet which covers it, say a small prayer on how this object which we both created from our love, will serve as a symbol of for that love and our devotion to one another and celebration of one another through the Christian religion. What we have created essentially is really the ideal intimate toy because we have given it so much meaning, love, and celebratory Christian flavor that it can now serve as a tool to greatly enhance our sex lives.

Our intimacy aid is only one example and though we find it the easiest, funnest, and most pleasurable to use, other Christian couples may have preference for a intimacy aid of their own making. The key is to add blessing and prayer to whatever pleasuring toy you do come up with. But do feel free to construct a Christian tickler pleasure pillow of your own, adding of course your own prayer and celebratory Christian love!

By: Chess McDoogle

About the Author:

Darius

Spicing up Christian sex should be a goal every Christian couple has for their relationship.

Sometimes we can forget how important intimacy really is, and neglect our needs for having a pleasurable and exciting sex life. So, let's find out how we can spice up Christian sex:

1. Sex toys.

Now sex toys do not have to be anything elaborate, nor do they have to go against the guidelines of Christian intimacy. Erotic lubrication is, for example, an easy and effective sex toy to use to spice things up. There are many other safe options to consider as well. Obviously you want to stay away from things which are harmful or unsafe.

2. Try new positions.

Way too often we get in a certain groove and perform intimacy the same way over and over and over. Switch things up! Try new positions. This can be incredibly erotic and pleasing to both you and your partner. Many Christians are hesitant to experiment with a new position, in fear that it may not be in sync with Christian intimacy belief. But, surprisingly most positions are allowable, and if you have any doubt you can consult an intimacy manual which will outline what is allowed and what is not, within Christianity.

3. Sex Techniques.

There are many Christian sex techniques beyond different positions. You can learn ways to improve foreplay and increase pleasure greatly simply by learning a few new sex techniques. There are erotic zones for touching that work excellent, oral techniques that will drive your lover wild, and many more pleasurable tips that will make the difference between mediocre sex and outstanding sex. An intimacy guide which focuses on techniques for Christians can be a great resource on how to learn all the tips and techniques you'll need for great sex.

By: Chess McDoogle

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Jalen

The internet has become host to an unexpected boom phenomenon. Twelve years ago when the internet was in its infancy, sex toys for men were not exactly considered a natural marketing eureka moment for budding web entrepreneurs.

Travel, fashion, books, dvd's, yes, but sex toys for men? Who'd have thought it?

But almost from day one, the web became the hottest new venue for sex, raw and uncensored around the clock. It was very timely too. By the late 90's, porn and its sleazy image had been all but driven out of several of the world's leading American and European capitals in successive political clean up campaigns. With the advent of 24/7 porn online, the market was ripe for the supply of sex toys for men desperate for sexual relief from the viewing of all that downloadable porn.

So the sale of this toys for men became an overnight hot ticket item on the internet, with the emphasis on hot. The internet provided by default the perfect venue. Nameless,faceless purchasing for millions of men. No more risk of being seen in sleazy parts of town, all passions and fetishes could be pursued discreetly and confidentially.

Now the purchase of such toys for men is as easy and as guiltless as booking a flight or ordering a tee shirt. The mood has changed too. The sleaze that once surrounded the concept of sex toys for men has been replaced by the customer oriented service values of mega corporations.

Women have had great toys for decades, but now adult toys for men are coming up fast! This toys for men have become the new must have for guys whether or not they have partners. They have uncovered a wealth of sensations men didn't know were achievable. Included in this are those adult toys for men specialized in exploring and pleasuring the male g-spot, the prostate and the little known perineum, the sensitive area between the anus and the testicles. Apply the right kind of vibrator to this area and it takes pleasure to whole new heights. Whatever sexual thrill men seek, modern technology has made sex toys for men a mind blowing experience.

By: Chris C O

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Morgan

Toys aren’t just for kids anymore. And with the vast array of sex toys that are being made and created for adults, there’s no reason for you to not find something that pleases you—in so very many ways.

Talking about sex

The trick with talking about sex and things that you’d like to do in order to improve your sex life is to not bring it up right after or right before you’re actually doing the ‘deed.’

You want to find a time that’s outside of the bedroom and unrushed. Talk in a secluded corner of a restaurant or in your kitchen. Stay out of the bedroom for the moment. You don’t want to cause any undue pressure and scare him or her away.

Be honest and open about what you’ve been thinking about. Are you thinking about trying some new toys in general or do you want to share some finds with your partner? Talk about the benefits that you’ve discovered, and see what their feelings are as well. They may be perfectly open to trying something new.

But if they aren’t, then you may want to avoid putting any pressure on them. See if you can discuss it further down the road, and let them initiate anything further.

When they’ve said yes

When your partner has agreed to try some things out, don’t jump up and down (wait until they’re gone for that), but start the conversation about things that sound like fun.

Many times, going onto an Internet site together is the best way to look without pressure or embarrassment. Not that there’s any reason for you to be embarrassed, but someone who is new can feel very vulnerable and timid. The anonymity of online can be very helpful. There are also user reviews many times as well as pictures.

There are many websites on the web to get you started on the road to pleasure. Look for the REAL user reviews as well as the great pictures. You’ll be sure to see something that you like, or something you’d like to try out. With the clear menus and thousands upon thousands of options, you’re sure to be caught looking for hours.

Online shopping gives you anonymity and discreetness. And without a salesperson or clerk looking over your shoulder, you can take your time and really pick out what you want. There’s no one trying to force you into buying something because they need a commission.

Starting off

One of the first forays into sex toys is usually a vibrator or dildo for a woman. Many women can not climax with just penetration or they need something to fill up the lonely days. Vibrators are terrific because not only can they stimulate vaginally, but they can also be used on the clitoris as well.

And although it seems like there aren’t as many toys for men, you just have to look a little harder. Why not try out a penis pump or a penis ring? Both of these can create an overwhelming sensation in the sensitive penis tip. Rings in general work by creating a sense of sensory deprivation, so that the man can ‘last longer’ until the opportune moment.

These can be especially difficult to purchase in person, especially if you’re a newbie. Try an online site to scope out the choices before settling on one penis toy or another.

A little more advanced

If you’re tried the vibrators and the penis toys, then you’re ready to venture into other areas. Anal play is something that many couples would like to try, but they’re not quite sure how to begin.

Anal beads can be a great way to give an added sense of stimulation during any other sexual acts. Of course, dildos and vibrators can also be used for this purpose, but these can be overly large and difficult for the beginner. Start off small and use a lot of lubricant to help with the beginning stages.

Tying it all up

And of course, there are always the non-mechanical toys for couples. Bondage play is a popular way to heighten the orgasm experience. By restraining one of the members of the couple, the other can taunt for hours if they want to.

With bondage however, you will want to start simple and work your way to more advanced restraint applications.

You might like to try a blindfold ,arm guards, collar and leash play or some effective looking accessories to make you look AND feel the part!

When it comes to toys, your imagination is your best guide. Talk about your fantasies and see how you might be able to make them come true. And do a little online voyeurism, who knows where that will lead when you’re done shopping?

By: Iris Emery

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Ramon